Fill out independently. Share a code. See what you both want — privately, on your own devices.
You and your partner each open the app on your own phone. No account. No login. Just a checklist.
Your answers turn into a single shareable code. The code is your data — there's nothing on a server.
Paste each other's codes side by side. See matches, talking points, and gaps — privately, on your devices.
A desires checklist is a communication tool used by couples. Partners each fill out the same list independently, then compare. It helps you discover mutual interests and clarify limits — without the pressure of a live negotiation.
Your answers are packed into a compact binary code. Nothing touches a server. The code is the data — no external storage. Save it to your notes, share it only with who you choose.
Yes. Closr is a static HTML page. There is no backend, no database, and no analytics. Your browser does all the work. We have no way to see your answers even if we wanted to.
Absolutely. Many people use the list for self-exploration — to understand their own desires, curiosities, and limits. Save your code to revisit later.
Items marked Needs context are activities where mistakes can cause serious harm. They require specific education, skill, and deep trust before attempting. Read the tooltip on the activity for a quick framing, and seek out community resources and mentors first.
Safe: Minimise risk, learn about activities, negotiate boundaries. Sane: Decide with a clear head, free from pressure. Consensual: All activities freely agreed to by everyone; consent can be withdrawn at any moment.
RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) acknowledges that some activities carry inherent risk even with precautions — reducible through education and communication.
Closr is a free tool with no corporate backing, no subscription, and no monetisation. If you find it useful, share it with someone who might benefit.
Send it to your partner however you like. They paste it on their device. Nothing leaves your phone.
Save this code — it's the only way to restore your list or compare results later.
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